never attaching is a good excuse and trap for those who fear rejection, who fear or lack an ability to love, truly love not just mirror back what they want in return or simply for their own spirits.  attaching and clinging on is just as bad it sucks the life out of everyone it touches.  where is God in all of this?  it amazes me how many people construct so many reasons or ways of why this and why that to avoid a God they cannot understand.  to make themselves God.  or to demolish God altogether.  those who work in service are human and have needs also.  who makes it ok to smile with the hand out to receive but to turn away and make invisible the giver at the first sign of the reality of completing the circuit being whole and giving back

one can analyze all day, things others say, things other teach
one can quote all day, same same result
which party is on the outside looking in then?

i may have more to say later on, i'll just use the edit button

elisa

Make a Joyful Sound Unto Your Creator and take JOY that it is NOT YOU!!!! wooooooohooooooooooooo..........freedommmmmmmmmmmmmm